Things like cooking in underwear with spouse, or showering...these are a good start for me...I'm a fan of lingerie though good looking underwear can be just as good... a little teasing can be good as long as you know where to draw the line... I want to say things like sex in the woods, sex on the beach, but unless the temps were just right and there weren't any stander byes, it wouldn't work... Getting into a rhythm with your spouse is even more important than any extra's you throw in, though this may lead to dull thinking... Another thing that would be nice is photo sets, you can just put together some cheesecake throwback clothing and do a regular picture taking fun... Then you have your spouse right there in a sexy photo album and on your PC... 1 thing that makes it super fun for both parties is a little suspense leading up to sex and a little follow up after...
A few of my turnoffs are group sex, anything involving pain, and too much distortion whether it be digital enhancement or rude comments...
As far as drinking and sex goes, I'm sure there are far ranging philosophies, but a little alcohol or tobacco can soften the mood and make sex just a little better. I guess I'm saying drink but don't lose track of where you are... Like a jolly rancher might not cut it, but when you drink the whole bottle sometimes you can't enjoy it...
"If it looks like a rose, and it feels like a rose, and it smells like a rose, it's likely a rose"
Another thing I'm curious about is abstract thinking, I'm sure this has been done many ways, but things like flowing conversation, holiday traditions, and balancing acts come to mind.
to be continued...
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